5 Lists to Make Before the End of This Year
Look at this vocabulary and check that you understand it before you listen to and read the article:
mixed bag: something composed of diverse elements, characteristics, people, etc
roller coaster: a small railroad, esp. in an amusement park, with open cars that moves along high, sharply winding tracks
fluttered: rapid heart beat esp when someone is in love
to grab: to take something quickly or opportunistically
unavoidable: not possible to prevent or ignore
to sift: to filter, seperate, organise
to acknowledge: to express gratitude for something
Time flies doesn’t it? Hard to believe it’s December already. It’s a nostalgic mixed bag for many — a roller coaster of highs and lows. Some succeeded in work, others failed, some hearts fluttered, others broke. Families joyfully said hello to little additions, and tearfully bid farewell to loved ones passing.
It’s a time when reflection and contemplation is unavoidable. Coming to the end of anything causes us to look back on the journey. But it can be a powerfully therapeutic practice if we’re intentional. We’re the sum total of our experiences – reflection allows us to sift the good from the bad, to be thankful, and to grow and transform.
As you grab a glass of wine and some chocolate, here are five lists to make and reflect upon:
1. A “People” List
New friends and old — networking connections that turned out to be so much more. Think through the people who really impacted your life this year, those who encouraged you, those who believed in you, those who gave you a massive break — acknowledge them. Once you have your list, let them know how thankful you are, take them out for lunch, send a card, an email, write a letter or make a phone call.
As we reflect on how others have poured into our lives, we’ll think of ways we can pay it forward.
2. A “Personal Achievement” List
Whether it’s professionally, spiritually, physically, intellectually, or relationally, write down the ways you’ve succeeded in these areas. Perhaps a promotion at work, or finally breaking free from your job; becoming more committed to your beliefs; increasing your fitness levels; spending more time with your partner.
You’ll be surprised at how much you were able to accomplish in one year. It’s healthy to give yourself a pat on the back, and it’ll be fuel and motivation to progress in your goals.
3. A “Mistakes And Lessons Learned” List.
The only failure is in failing to learn from the experience. Everyone’s a little bruised and battered from falling flat on our faces throughout the year. Make a list of mistakes for the sole purpose of drawing a valuable lesson from each one. Our trials can be our greatest teachers, if we take the time to sit and listen.
4. A “Laughter” List.
Humour is incredibly healthy. Laughter is not only a unique human experience, but something we can never have too much of. No doubt there were plenty of incidences that would’ve gone viral had you caught them on camera. At least you can put them on paper. This will be a difficult list to put together as you’ll keep interrupting yourself with a good ol’ belly laugh.
More than just releasing happy chemicals, it’ll remind you not to take life, or yourselves too seriously.
5. A “Contribution” List.
This list is typically the most difficult to put together, because it often uncovers the extent of our selfishness. But, no pain no gain right? Make a list of ways that you’ve given without any expectation of return: a random act of kindness, a generous donation, or helping someone out at work.
The good news is, the year isn’t over yet, and this is one list we all want to grow.
Something to chat about
- Who did you make friends with this year? Are there any old friends you should get in touch with again?
- What were your personal achievements this year? What are you proud of?
- Did you make any mistakes in 2014 which you need to correct in 2015?
- How much did you laugh this year? What did you laugh at?
- How have you helped people this year? Have you done something for nothing?
Adapted from Huffington Post:
10 amazing Xmas (Christmas) facts
Talk to your coach and classmates about these random Christmas facts. Write what you talked about in an email and send it to your coach. And why not record your voice and listen to it?
- DESPITE the tale of three wise men paying homage to baby Jesus, the Bible never gives a number. Matthew’s Gospel refers to merely “wise men”.
- NEARLY 60 million Christmas trees are grown each year in Europe.
- THE abbreviation Xmas isn’t irreligious. The letter X is a Greek abbreviation for Christ.
- MANY theologians estimate that Jesus wasn’t born on December 25 but sometime in September between 6BC and 30AD.
- RUDOLPH the red-nosed reindeer was invented for a US firm’s Christmas promotion in 1938.
- The British wear paper crowns while they eat Christmas dinner. The crowns are stored in a tube called a “Christmas cracker.”
- THERE are 13 Santas in Iceland, each leaving a gift for children. They come down from the mountain one by one, starting on December 12 and have names like Spoon Licker, Door Sniffer and Meat Hook.
- US scientists calculated that Santa would have to visit 822 homes a second to deliver all the world’s presents on Christmas Eve, travelling at 650 miles a second.
- HANGING stockings out comes from the Dutch custom of leaving shoes packed with food for St Nicholas’s donkeys. He would leave small gifts in return.
- THERE is no reference to angels singing anywhere in the Bible.
Look at the vocabulary below and check you understand it. Then listen to and read the two news stories.
to remove: to take away from somewhere, to dismiss a worker from their job
to fail: to not do something correctly
–bound: in the direction of
(to have) backing: to support another person’s actions
flight attendant: the person who helps you on a plane
a delay: when something is late or postponed
nude: wearing no clothes, naked
to struggle: to have difficulty with something
on display: to show to the public
A Korean Air executive has been forced to resign after she delayed a plane because she was unhappy with the way she was served nuts
Heather Cho demanded the removal of a crew member from a flight last Friday for failing to serve nuts on a plate. Ms Cho, a vice-president of the firm, forced the Incheon-bound flight to taxi back to the terminal in New York.
The airline said checking service standards was part of her job, and she had the pilot’s backing. But officials insisted that she was simply a passenger at the time.
Local media reports said that a junior attendant had offered Ms Cho macadamia nuts in a bag, instead of serving the nuts on a plate. Ms Cho, daughter of company boss Cho Yang-ho, then questioned the chief flight attendant over in-flight service standards and eventually ordered him off the plane.
Korean Air said the plane arrived in South Korea just 11 minutes late, and that the decision to expel the senior flight attendant had been made in consultation with the pilot.
The airline told Korea Times that checking of quality of service was one of Ms Cho’s jobs, as she was in charge of in-flight service for the carrier.
The transport authorities are investigating whether Ms Cho’s actions infringed aviation law. “Even though she is senior vice president at the company, she was a passenger at that time, so she had to behave and be treated as a passenger,” a South Korea transport ministry official told reporters.
A portrait of the Spanish royal family which took two decades to complete has been officially unveiled at the Royal Palace in Madrid
“In this case the delay was probably excessive,” Spanish realist painter Antonio Lopez joked of the delay to the painting officially unveiled at Madrid’s Royal Palace last Wednesday.
In 1994, Lopez was commissioned to paint the Spanish royal family, which then consisted of King Juan Carlos and Queen Sofia and their three children, the Princess Elena, Princess Cristina and Prince Felipe.
Much has changed in those 20 years: Prince Felipe is now King Felipe and all three children are married with families of their own.
Lopez is a celebrated artist both in Spain and internationally, who is known for his nude paintings. He told El Pais that the area he had struggled with the most was the clothing.
“Queen Sofía was portrayed in a pink dress…that at one point wasn’t working for me. I asked her to repeat the photos…and she came to my house with three different ones in a bag. She posed again and I restarted the portrait…But later on I decided to return to the original dress, the one you can see in the painting.”
The delay could also be explained by the fact that Lopez usually paints with the subject sitting in front of him, whereas with the Spanish royal family, he worked from a set of photographs.
The painting, at a size of 3 x 3.4 metres, is the largest ever completed by Lopez and cost over €300,000. It was commissioned by Spain’s National Heritage agency. ‘Portrait of the family of Juan Carlos I (1994-2014)’ is on display to the public as part of an exhibition of other royal portraits at Madrid’s Royal Palace until April 19th next year.
Something to chat about
- Do you think Ms. Cho over-reacted?
- Why do you think she did what she did?
- Have you ever witnessed – or had – any problems on a flight?
- Do you think Antonio Lopez took too long to paint the portrait?
- What would you have done in the King’s place? Would you have complained? Would you have asked for your money back?
- Have you seen the portrait? If so what do you think of it?
How to Complain
Look at the examples below and check you understand them.
Then think about the situations in the articles on page 1 of this week’s Weekly English Practice (see previous post). How could you use these phrases to complain? Imagine you are a passenger, Ms. Cho, a member of the Royal family or the person who commissioned the portrait.
- There seems to be a problem with my phone bill. I was billed for two phone lines and I only have one. Could you double check the charges on my account?
- Sorry to bother you but I bought these jeans yesterday and they have a hole in them. I would like to exchange them for new ones.
- I want to complain about Wendy, your customer service representative. She was very rude when I called this afternoon. Maybe she needs more training on how to deal with customers.
- Would you mind turning down your music? It is too loud and I can’t concentrate on what I am doing.
- There must be a misunderstanding, I thought the course started at 6pm but it seems that it has already started. Am I late? What time did it actually start?
- I hate to tell you but the toilet is blocked and there’s no paper. Could somebody sort it out please?
- I was expecting you to help me clean up but you aren’t. Can you please pause your video game and help me for a few minutes?